Questions and Answers
Questions and Answers
How do I schedule a reading with you?
You can select from a variety of readings on the Book A Reading page.
Do I need to provide you with any personal information beforehand?
If there is a specific area that you would like to cover, you can inform me what the topic is, but please do not write me before our reading to explain anything about yourself, your history or present situation. Please do not tell me about your loved one or how they passed. I prefer all of the information to come from them through me. Providing me with information can actually inhibit the process of our reading because you may tell me validations that I would have been able to get from your loved ones in spirit.
What if I haven’t had anyone close to me pass over? Can I still get a reading?
Absolutely! Oftentimes people distantly related to you can come through. You may not have known them personally but they are absolutely connected to you. Your reading doesn’t have to be about a loved one coming through. Some people like to have a reading to help them with a life situation, personal guidance or spiritual direction. I have found that I am able to help people in many ways.
How can I prepare for our reading?
It’s very important to ensure a calm energy and open mind during our connection. Ambient noise or other distractions can take away from this, so it's always good to find a quiet place for you to be in during our session. When I have readings done for myself, I love having a candle lit in the room with me, or incense. You'll want to be sure that you're comfortable and relaxed. Having a list of questions written down will help as well. I don’t expect you to feed these to me, but if you have them in your sight, chances are they will be answered throughout our reading. If possible, take 5 to 15 minutes beforehand to quiet your mind and invite those whom you wish to come through. Have a pen and paper to take notes. Names, dates and symbols don’t always make sense the first time you hear them, so it’s important to be able to refer back to what you’ve written down. And be sure to save them! It isn’t uncommon for certain messages to fully come to pass a year, even two years later.
The most essential thing we need from each other is openness and honesty. Please don’t try to test me or play “Stump the Psychic”. It is neither conducive to our session nor respectful, and the spirits are very sensitive to our behavior and intentions. Use the time we have to let them come through. Trust me, they want to!
Will you be able to tell me my future?
Future predictions may come through in a reading from spirit, whether it be your loved ones coming through, or a guide or angel; however, it is not something that I focus on because your future is truly your life’s path and they are your lessons. You should never live your life solely by what comes through in a reading, but rather use the information as a tool to improve your current situation. Always keep in mind, that we have free will. At any point, you can change your future.
Let Go Of Expectations
Every reading is different. I never know what is going to happen during a reading, or who is going to come through. I just leave it up to spirit to come to me and we go from there. Most often times, the loved one that you were hoping to hear from will come through, but, it is truly up to Spirit. Please let go of expectations and try to be open to all that comes through for you. It is truly in Heaven’s Hands.